Now seems as good a time as ever for a clean slate.
It hit me over the summer: Everyone was quitting. Certainly, there has been an exodus from jobs. In what's been called the "Great Resignation," the number of workers who quit their jobs in April alone broke an all-time U.S. record. But then more people quit in July, and in August, even more. |
As you'll see in today's Opinion video, which I made with Kirby Ferguson, I find this turn of events fascinating. It's scary to confront the stigmas around quitting, which are instilled in us from childhood. We're taught that quitters are losers, who shuffle through life without ever achieving the great breakthrough many of us have been raised to covet, not just by our families, but by movies, songs and general Americana. |
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For our whole lives, our culture has encouraged us to embrace toughness and perseverance at all costs — but those costs can be higher than we realize, especially to ourselves. What if sticking with something for the sake of sticking with it actually causes you more harm than good? What if the smartest thing you can do to achieve success is quit? |
As brutal as it's been, I think the pandemic has forced many of us to reflect — and to realize that our tolerance for change might be higher than we thought. The disruption has helped us see what we were too busy to notice before. Now that we've been jostled off the treadmill of our ordinary lives, we have a chance to figure out what we path we really want to be on. And to start down that one instead. |
Here's what we're focusing on today: |
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